.Lopez and Anthony "Marc and I were friends before we got married. We were friends for years. And we always loved each other, and we always worked together," she explained to Lauer. "So it wasn't like an unnatural thing to keep working together." "Obviously, we have children together so it's not like he's not going to be in my life," she added. When Lauer admiringly called this an "adult approach," Lopez admitted there are difficulties involved. "I'm not going to sit here and lie to you about it," she noted. "But at the end of the day there is real love there, and there is a family there." Lauer did get Lopez a bit fired up, when he mentioned a Vanity Fair article in which the singer/actress discussed loving herself enough to walk away from her marriage. "Matt, I'm going to kill you right now," she quipped, but noted firmly, "Everything I wanted to say about the divorce I said in that article, and Marc and I agreed we weren't going to talk about it publicly again because it really is our personal life."